Monday, August 01, 2016


It has been very rainy the last couple of months. But this morning when I woke up, it was DARK. And it has been raining off and on for a few hours. Checked on the internet and now I know why. For the last couple of years we had been suffering from severe drought. With all the rain from the last couple of months, that should be all taken care of now.

Friday, July 15, 2016


Monday, July 04, 2016

Gay Pride

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And to think, when this started nine years ago, there was just drag queens and Lesbians representing. Now, thousands of people feel free to take part, and be GAY. The times, they ARE a changing ...

Friday, July 01, 2016


Thursday, June 30, 2016


From the New York Times:

More than half of those who have tested positive for the Zika virus in New York City had traveled in recent months to the Dominican Republic, the city’s health department said on Wednesday, releasing data from its latest round of testing.

The results were a stark reminder that, as the summer travel season begins, many of the most popular destinations for New Yorkers in the Caribbean and Latin America pose a serious health risk, especially for pregnant women.

The new and more detailed data — which broke down cases by borough and by travel history — was issued in a health alert to doctors and health care providers across the city.

Dr. Mary T. Bassett, the city’s health commissioner, said that of the 233 people who have tested positive, 140 had reported recently arriving from the Dominican Republic.

After the Dominican Republic, the places most frequently visited by patients who tested positive for the virus were Puerto Rico, with 20 cases, and Guyana, the small South American nation, with 14.

Click here for the rest of the article

Zika Virus in the Dominican Republic

What is the current situation?

Local mosquito transmission of Zika virus infection (Zika) has been reported in the Dominican Republic. Local mosquito transmission means that mosquitoes in the area are infected with Zika virus and are spreading it to people.

Because Zika virus is primarily spread by mosquitoes, CDC recommends that travelers to the Dominican Republic protect themselves from mosquito bites. The mosquitoes that spread Zika usually do not live at elevations above 6,500 feet (2,000 meters) because of environmental conditions. Travelers whose itineraries are limited to areas above this elevation are at minimal risk of getting Zika from a mosquito. The following map shows areas of the Dominican Republic above and below 6,500 feet.

Sexual transmission of Zika virus from a male partner is also possible, so travelers are also encouraged to use condoms or not have sex.

Many people infected with Zika virus do not get sick. Among those who do develop symptoms, sickness is usually mild, with symptoms that last for several days to a week. Guillain-Barré syndrome (GBS), a rare disorder that can cause muscle weakness and paralysis for a few weeks to several months, is very likely triggered by Zika in a small proportion of infections, much as it is after a variety of other infections. Most people fully recover from GBS, but some have permanent damage.

As more information becomes available, this travel notice will be updated. Please check back frequently for the most up-to-date recommendations.

What can travelers do to prevent Zika?

There is no vaccine or medicine for Zika. Travelers can protect themselves by preventing mosquito bites:

  • Cover exposed skin by wearing long-sleeved shirts and long pants.
  • Use EPA-registered insect repellents containing DEET, picaridin, oil of lemon eucalyptus (OLE, also called para-menthane-diol [PMD]), or IR3535. Always use as directed.
    • Pregnant and breastfeeding women can use all EPA-registered insect repellents, including DEET, according to the product label.
    • Most repellents, including DEET, can be used on children older than 2 months. (OLE should not be used on children younger than 3 years.)
  • Use permethrin-treated clothing and gear (such as boots, pants, socks, and tents). You can buy pre-treated clothing and gear or treat them yourself.
  • Stay in places with air conditioning and window and door screens to keep mosquitoes outside.
  • Sleep under a mosquito bed net if air conditioned or screened rooms are not available or if sleeping outdoors.
  • Mosquito netting can be used to cover babies younger than 2 months old in carriers, strollers, or cribs to protect them from mosquito bites.

Sexual transmission of Zika virus from a man is possible. If you have sex (vaginal, anal, or oral) with a man while traveling, you should use condoms.

After travel:

Many people infected with Zika virus do not feel sick. If a mosquito bites an infected person while the virus is still in that person’s blood, it can spread the virus by biting another person. Even if they do not feel sick, travelers returning to the United States from an area with Zika should take steps to prevent mosquito bites for 3 weeks so that they do not spread Zika to uninfected mosquitos.

Men who have traveled to an area with Zika but don’t have symptoms should use condoms for 8 weeks to protect their sex partners. Men who have Zika symptoms or are diagnosed with Zika should use condoms for 6 months. If the man’s partner is pregnant, the couple should either use condoms  or not have sex during the pregnancy.

Women who have traveled to an area with Zika but don’t have symptoms should wait 8 weeks after travel before trying to get pregnant.  Women who also have Zika symptoms should wait at least 8 weeks after symptoms start before trying to get pregnant.

For more information, see Zika and Sexual Transmission.

If you feel sick and think you may have Zika:

  • Talk to your doctor if you develop a fever with a rash, joint pain, or red eyes. Tell him or her about your travel.
  • Take acetaminophen (paracetamol) to relieve fever and pain. Do not take aspirin, products containing aspirin, or other nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs, such as ibuprofen.
  • Get lots of rest and drink plenty of liquids.


Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Pie & Coffee

This is a little cafe a couple of blocks from my apartment in the colonial zone. It is on a little side-street, near the Bilini Hotel. Great coffee, and the best homemade pumpkin pie I have had in a long time. AND (!!!) the prices are sooooo cheap. There are so many small businesses like this dotted throughout the neighborhood.

Friday, June 24, 2016


Santo Domingo.- Pope Francis has accepted Cardinal Nicolas de Jesus Lopez Rodriguez’s resignation as archbishop of Santo Domingo, and will continue his duties until his successor is announced and sworn in.

The protocol to formalize the appointment of Santo Domingo’s next archbishop is in its final phase, after a lengthy consultation process in the country through Vatican envoy Jude Thaddeus Okolo.

The announcement of the new archbishop is expected after June 28, when Lopez Rodriguez reaches 25 years since designated cardinal by then Pope John Paul II. “That signals that the Pope has already chosen the prelate who’ll replace Lopez Rodriguez,” Outlet reports.

Upon leaving office, Lopez Rodriguez will become emeritus archbishop of Santo Domingo, and will still be a member of the College of Cardinals for life, but keeps the right to vote only in case of election of a new pope until he turns 80, on October 31.

The Dominican cardinal submitted his resignation as archbishop in 2011, when he turned 75, as Canonic Law stipulates.


Wednesday, June 22, 2016


Kevin Slack Photography: Cuba

Monday, June 20, 2016

Gay Pride Celebrations

Friday, June 17, 2016


Tomorrow on El Conde.

Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Vigil for Orlando, Florida in Duarte Park

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Wednesday, June 08, 2016


                                                                             Photo: Carlos Rodriguez
Activists have been fighting for LGBT rights in the Dominican Republic for decades, but in 2016, that fight grabbed some international headlines thanks in part to US Ambassador James “Wally” Brewster. Brewster, who has served as US ambassador to the Dominican Republic since 2013, is the first openly gay top diplomat that the US has ever posted to Latin America. Since beginning his tenure three years ago, his presence and vocal support of gay rights have sparked a larger conversation about the status of LGBT people in the DR – one that bubbled over recently when he visited a school with his husband and was accused by a coalition of evangelical Christian churches of pushing a “gay agenda” on students.

Brewster has, in some ways, become the face of a movement to de-stigmatize LGBT identities on the island. But he is just one part of a large network of Dominican activists, artists, and legislators working to create visibility and change. Dominican visual artist Carlos Rodriguez is one such artist; through his photography, films and advocacy, he is countering harmful misrepresentations of LGBT communities in the media. De-stigmatizing these identities is important, because while the Dominican Republic’s criminal code doesn’t explicitly ban homosexuality, it also doesn’t outlaw discrimination or harassment on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. This means LGBT communities face widespread discrimination in health care, education, the justice system and employment – not to mention violence. Transgender people in particular are vulnerable to violence, and there have been several dozen suspected hate-crime murders since 2006, according to a recent report by US-based organization Human Rights First.

To read more click this link:

Thursday, June 02, 2016

JetBlue Sale

JetBlue is having a two-day sale.

Saturday, May 28, 2016

Cautionary Tale

My Dominican lover married another woman while I was giving birth to our son

A mother has been left devastated after she found out her boyfriend had secretly married another woman while she was giving birth to their son.

Heather McGillion, 24, was working as a hotel entertainer in the Dominican Republic when she fell for her colleague Adonis Rodriguez.

The couple had been together for more than a year when Heather fell pregnant, but due to complications during her pregnancy she decided to temporarily return home to Johnstone, Renfrewshire.

But as she was welcoming their son Diego into the world, 21-year-old Adonis was marrying a German tourist called Julia.

Trained dancer Heather only found out after receiving a message on Facebook from a friend.

She said: "When I opened the message it felt like I had been hit by a double-decker bus.

"Adonis had his arms around a woman and she was wearing a wedding dress.

"It didn't make sense and the more I thought about it, the more absurd it was.

"We had only been apart for a few weeks and there was no way Adonis could have met another woman and arranged a wedding in less than a month.

"For a second I didn't twig who it was. Then to my horror I realised it was Julia.

"She was a German tourist who came to stay at the hotel. About a year before I had noticed Adonis had become friends with her on Facebook and they had been messaging each other.

"It was nothing sexual but it made me feel uneasy. But Adonis assured me there was nothing going on and when I discovered I was pregnant I forgot all about it." 

When Heather called Adonis to confront him about he admitted everything and claimed he only married her for a visa.

She also noticed in the wedding photos that Julia, 31, had undergone a radical makeover.

She added: "She was unrecognisable from the slightly plump, mousy woman I had seen on Adonis's Facebook page.

She had travelled to visit him around four times and they planned the wedding to take place while she was back in the UK.

Heather has returned to the Dominican Republic with Diego, who is now three months old, and is allowing Adonis to visit him.

She said: "My mum has retired here so I have come out again with my son.

"Despite everything, I want Diego to have a father so Adonis is in regular contact with him but it's very hard.

"I feel so foolish for trusting Adonis but I keep telling myself there were no warning signs.

"I had been in a relationship with him before he ever met her.

"She came out every six months but it was the fourth holiday in which they married so it was very fast.

"She knew all about me and him and the baby but still married him, they had both planned it and I was the one not in the know.
"He treated me like royalty and he was so excited about our baby.

"I still can't believe what happened. Adonis had given me the impression he wanted to be together forever but while I was giving birth to his baby, he was marrying another woman."

Adonis has since admitted that he had been seeing Julia behind Heather's back and apologised to the mother of his child.

He said: "Yes I'm married, Julia is my wife. I was still with Heather when I married her.

"I want to say I'm so, so sorry to Heather about this because Heather has my little baby and I want to see Diego."


My Dominican lover married another woman while I was giving birth to our son

Thursday, May 26, 2016


Tags: Men

Thursday, May 26, 2016


Recently, two criminal incidents on highways have come to the attention of the Embassy.

In one case, two persons were pulled over on Carretera Sanchez just west of San Cristobal by a vehicle with “police” markings and nine armed men in police and military-style uniforms.  The victims were forced into the back seat of their car and taken to an isolated area where they were robbed of their valuables (money, jewels, computers, cameras).  Although they were threatened with harm, they were not injured.  According to the Dominican National Police, the men were not actual police officers, but imposters.

 In another case, two persons stopped to purchase souvenirs along Autopista Duarte near La Vega when three armed men took their rental car and drove away.  Again, they were threatened with harm, but were not injured.  The car was later recovered, but all their personal items were missing.

 The Embassy provides the following highway safety tips:

 •           Drive on highways only during daylight hours.

•           Limit the amount of valuables you take with you.

•           Limit your stops along the highway to well-known and well populated locations.

•           If you are urged to pull over by armed people, try to do so in a public place.  But DO NOT keep driving; stop.

•           Do not resist and comply with all requests.  Your life is more important than your possessions!

•           Contact local law enforcement and the U.S. Embassy as soon as it is safe to do so.

 We strongly recommend that U.S. citizens traveling to or residing in the Dominican Republic enroll in the Department of State’s Smart Traveler Enrollment Program (STEP) on the State Department’s website. STEP enrollment gives you the latest security updates, and makes it easier for the U.S. embassy to contact you in an emergency.  If you don’t have Internet access, enroll directly with the nearest U.S. embassy.

Regularly monitor the State Department's website, where you can find current Travel Warnings, (including the Travel Warning for the Dominican Republic), Travel Alerts, and the Worldwide Caution. Read the Country Specific Information for the Dominican Republic.  For additional information, refer to “A Safe Trip Abroad” on the State Department’s website.

Contact the U.S. embassy or consulate for up-to-date information on travel restrictions.  You can also call 1-888-407-4747 toll-free in the United States and Canada or 1-202-501-4444 from other countries.  These numbers are available from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. Eastern Time, Monday through Friday (except U.S. federal holidays).  Follow us on Twitter and Facebook to have travel information at your fingertips.

 For all emergencies involving U.S. citizens, contact the American Citizen Services (ACS) unit of the U.S. Embassy’s Consular Section, located at:

 Ave. Republica de Colombia # 57,

Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

telephone 809-567-7775; after hours emergency telephone 809-567-7775:

E-mail: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .

Hours: 7am – 4pm

Wednesday, May 25, 2016


If you need a reliable driver on your next trip to the Dominican Republic, lookup Jose Ramon. He speaks several languages, and is honest and trustworthy.

Tags: Taxi

Tuesday, May 17, 2016


History has been made. There is now an openly gay deputy in the congress of the Dominican Republic. The times really are changing. Congratulations to Deivis Ventura!

Tags: News History Gay

Thursday, May 12, 2016


It's that time of year again. Election rally today. And that means that I have to leave my home because the noise is soooooo fucking incredibly loud. It is so loud that the glasses in the cabinet are vibrating. For the last few weeks, the weather has been crazy. It has been raining a lot. Especially over the last couple of days. I mean sky-opening rain. I wish it would rain now! Thank God the election is on Sunday.

Thursday, May 05, 2016


For the last several weeks the weather has been overcast, and ranging between cool and humid. I've been walking around and looking at some of the new buildings and spaces. A lot of buildings have been renovated in the zone, or at least the facades have. This one above has always peaked my interest. I would always pass it, and comment on what a beautiful job that was done with with the restoration. And then I find out it is a museum. It is owned by a local Dominican artist, who lives in Jarabacoa. And the museum is dedicated to his art.

Thursday, April 28, 2016


Tags: Men

Tuesday, April 26, 2016


A local desingn store where you can find things to purchase from local artisans. From fashion, jewelry and art. They have events where you can meet local artists. They also have live music. Very bohemian/artistic vibe with a creative clientele. If you're looking for a unique gift, this is the place to check out.

Monday, April 25, 2016


Mercado Colón calls themselves a fusion restaurant. I see it more as a tapas restaurant. Can be pretty busy on the weekends, but very nice during the week. Have only had the pizza and the sliders, and it was very good. Offers a really great wine selection. Here is their menu:!/n/mercado_colon/

Sunday, April 24, 2016

Sunday Brunch @ Jaragua Hotel Today

Friday, April 22, 2016


I have been meaning to write about this for a long time. Deivis Ventura, is the first openly gay candidate for congress in the Dominican Republic. There is also an openly gay candidate for mayor of La Romana.

42-year-old Deivis Ventura is the first openly gay man running for a seat as a diputado, or representative in the Dominican Republic's equivalent of the House of Representatives. His candidacy comes with the support of Ciudadanos Más, an initiative to position leaders from traditionally excluded minorities in the political field.

Ventura says he suffered bullying in school and was also fired for being gay. He can relate to the initial distrust of many Dominicans in his circle who felt alienated from the political process, but he believes that only through participation can true changes come to the country. Although he faced rejection when he came out, his family now stands beside him and is supporting his campaign.

"I've traveled a long path that has brought me to affirm and love myself fully as I am: a black man, a gay man, a son of a poor family, a person of deep faith and above all a being who believes that a better world is possible when the basis for peaceful co-existence is built on the premise of respecting differences and accepting human diversity."

According to Hope Will Prevail Advancing the Human Rights of LGBT People in the Dominican Republic, a report that Human Rights First released last year on the state of LGBT rights in the Dominican Republic,

"LGBT Dominicans face a range of human rights concerns including violence, discrimination, hate crimes, lack of access to justice, impunity for perpetrators, and societal homophobia and transphobia."

The report goes on to detail some of the challenges which include reports of police harassment and complicity with violence, lack of anti-discrimination laws and some outspoken religious leaders that regularly make homophobic comments.

The hopeful tone of the report is based on the activists working for change in the country (Ventura is a member of REVASA, a network of gay and lesbian activists. They have a sister organization called TRANSSA for trans women and men. These are two of the groups active amongst others). Ventura says the press has been respectful in covering his candidacy, and the opposition comes mostly from people from the conservative religious groups.

Throughout the region both in the US and internationally LGBT candidates have sought to address issues of equality by running for the chance to make the laws themselves. There have been victories in Peru, Colombia and most recently Venezuela in the past. In May we will be able to report whether we can add Ventura to the list of successful LGBT candidates.

Ventura champions the environment, poor workers, and women. He hopes to pass a gender identity law, a non-discrimination law and a hate crimes law amongst other priorities.


Friday, April 15, 2016


Monday, April 11, 2016


Several new places have opened in the colonial zone. The biggest just had their grand-opening. It is called Buche' Perico, and is owned by the people behind El Conuco. It is on El Conde, down the street from Denny's and across from SegaZona Cafe. It had a soft-opening for the last couple of weeks. And I stopped by to have a look-see. The space is absolutely amazing. They have been renovating this building for the last 9 months, and I have to say they have done a spectacular job. It is really beautiful. Don't know about the food as yet. When I stopped by, they just had a buffet setup for lunch. But if the food at El Conuco is any guide, it should be very good.

Will put up some of the other places soon.

Friday, April 08, 2016


I have been lazy lately about posting. And soooo much is going on. For the longest I have been complaining about the state of affairs in the colonial zone. Well, I am starting to think that things may be looking up. And being a die-hard pessimistic New Yorker, that's saying something. I'm starting to see some signs of progress. And there are definitely people who are putting their money into projects who obviously have some faith. So many new restaurants have opened lately in the colonial zone. Along with some new galleries and other little out of the way spots. And another luxury hotel is near completion. That's not to say there aren't still problems. Many of the commercial spaces on El Conde are vacant. And at night most of the side streets are dark. But many building facades are being rehabbed. And it helps the area take on a new "shine." So I'm a hopefully optimistic.

This past weekend I checked out the gay nightlife in the colonial zone. It's been about 6 months since I went to the Fogoo/G Lounge. Started off the night by having a drink (or I should say a couple of drinks) at Esedeku. And fell in love with their Sangria (good and strong!) and the doorman!. Then went over to Fogoo/G Lounge. And it's me, I'm old. The music is too loud and I don't like the hookah smoke. But honestly, I could put up with all that if there was some beautiful MASCULINE men about. Nothing wrong with drag queens, or skinny feminine gay men who appear to be in half-drag. They just don't entice me to want to come out. But as  I was reminded, the music has ALWAYS been loud, and they used to smoke cigarettes in the clubs. And that's true. I just know where to go now to see beautiful men. I just wish it were in a gay setting. 

Promise to post again tonight or tomorrow with some of the new stuff happening in the zone.

Saturday, March 12, 2016


Nineteen families were forcibly removed from their homes in the colonial zone. The space in question is across the street from the Hodelpa Caribe Colonial. According to news reports, the property is owned by the owner of the Hodelpa hotel chain. And they want it back. As can be imagined. The evictions did not go well.

Wednesday, March 09, 2016


The last couple of days have not been too good for James “Wally” Brewster, the U.S. Ambassador to the Dominican Republic. He visited a school last week with his husband. And the uproar has been loud and furious. And today, the president of the teachers association came out and said the Ministry of Education should forbid the ambassador from visiting schools with his husband. And the conservative and religious leaders are continuing the onslaught. There is now a petition asking the White House/President Obama to remove the ambassador. You can read it here:

The ambassador was also at the launching of the new LGBT Chamber of Commerce, here in Santo Domingo a few days ago. Coupled with the visit to the school with his husband, well, to say that he has worn out his welcome would be putting it mildly. Many in the gay community here are speaking out in support of the ambassador. A counter petition has been launched at the White House website (see below). You can click on the photo below to sign.

Friday, March 04, 2016

Gay Punta Cana

Gay Bar in Punta Cana

Mares Punta Cana Lounge Club Bar
Avenida Alemania, Plaza Nautico

El Cortecito, Bavaro/Punta Cana
Dominican Republic

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Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

Former New Yorker (Harlem!) living in Santo Domingo since January 2004. The person I was when I arrived is a totally different person today. I still love living in the D.R. Even with all its obvious contradictions. This blog is where I write about things I find interesting with the gay community, news, gossip, culture, and of course, men. Strictly from my point-of-view.

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